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Wed, Aug. 25th, 2010, 04:29 pm
Wedding jitters

Saturday is my first time officiating a wedding as a minister. Anxiety, sweats, stomach upset very similar to when I was a groom. Any of you officiated a wedding before?

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Wed, Aug. 25th, 2010 08:42 pm (UTC)
dancetomato

I've officiated many. Feel free to email me at dancetomato at gmail dot com with any questions.

Thu, Aug. 26th, 2010 05:31 pm (UTC)
basilwhite

Thanks! I may send you some questions as I approach the ceremony: for now I just feel generalized anxiety. Too dumb to ask a question

Thu, Aug. 26th, 2010 06:02 pm (UTC)
sisterdecadence

I did. Was a complete. Nervous. Wreck beforehand. And when it started I had a panic attack! But they are my good friends and I thought, "If you fuck this up due to nerves, you're going to fuck up your very good friends' wedding. Don't do THAT!" And that actually helped stabilize me.

Thu, Aug. 26th, 2010 09:15 pm (UTC)
basilwhite

So, focusing on potential negative outcomes. Check! That has military brat written all over it.