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Sun, Dec. 17th, 2006, 09:38 am
Mom's Holiday Message of Hate

Why I am immune to hecklers.

Dear Son:

Look up Narcissistic Personality Disorder on the Web. I have known about this for some time...since you were 8, essentially when your sister came along. What you have is a destructive and debilitating disorder.

Take your Christmas check and get yourself some therapy. You can "choose" to live out your life unable to truly love or have compassion for anyone. You can leave injured people in your wake as you go through life.

You can reject everything that is real and maintain a false face. But you will never feel joy, real love or affection or be able to make anyone happy. You can give things, but you can't give anything of yourself, because you are a false person. The real person died a long time ago. I don't like this person you are.

You are anything but special, or smart, or trustworthy. Everything is about you. I am ashamed for you and your behavior. You ran away from me and your son when you came down here, because it wasn't about "you".

Why you murdered yourself and created this clone of yourself I do not know. But what I am seeing is a narcissist, a soulless, untrustworthy and arrogant shell of a person. Don't expect me to visit, clap at your stupid jokes, or make excuses for your behavior. You are not funny, smart, or even human. This is what a narcissist is and always will be.

No one, not your mother, father, or siblings matter to you. What matters to you is coming up with some way to "blame" someone for your stupidity. You will probably eat yourself into a giant explosion.

I feel great about this letter. You have called me names, offended me and God and I hope he kicks your ass. The sooner the better. When this happens, don't expect any tears out of me.

Merry ...Your Loving Mother

Sun, Dec. 17th, 2006 04:00 pm (UTC)

My mother is a raging narcissist, and this letter could have been written by her to me. I refuse to make everything about her, therefore I am selfish and self-centered and a bad daughter. I know I don't know you well, but I don't believe a word she says about you. As a pastor, I read this letter and think, "Man, the person who wrote this letter is completely screwed up." It reveals much more about her than you.

The grace of this is that disfunctional family makes for great comedy, which is good since it makes for lousy family.

Sun, Dec. 17th, 2006 05:53 pm (UTC)

Yep. That letter says more about the sender than the recipient. I kept thinking "WTF!?" as I read it.

As to that bit about a dysfunctional family providing great material for comedy, I'd just add that "laughter is the best medicine"!

Sun, Dec. 17th, 2006 04:51 pm (UTC)

wow, you just managed to make me feel pretty good about my own family. I love the tags you chose for this.

Sun, Dec. 17th, 2006 06:22 pm (UTC)

Uh, DAMN! Yeah, she's the one with the narcissism, not you. Wow. I mean, first off, there's no way you can have narcissism, with as low self esteem as you have. Anyhow, pfft, she's an idiot, you are special, smart AND trustworthy. She's clearly opposite woman. Take the Christmas check and spend it on Booze and Whores, or anything else that you know would meet with her strong disapproval.

Sun, Dec. 17th, 2006 11:12 pm (UTC)


So very nice to know that old adage about mothers knowing everything ISN'T true.



You're terrific, Basil, just the way you are. PLEASE don't change towards "Mundania"! ^^

Mon, Dec. 18th, 2006 02:40 pm (UTC)

Wow! O_o

Just... umm... wow.